Showing posts with label Entitlement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Entitlement. Show all posts

Thursday, March 3, 2016

Entitled To Nothing

Well this is a puch in the nose!  But I needed it..... and you do to. Christian Exile: You Are Entitled to Nothing by Stephen McAlpine
...Christian exile, let me be clear. You are entitled to nothing. You are entitled to nothing.
In Christ you will be given everything, Romans 8:32 tells us so. But what are you entitled to? Nothing.
Jesus himself says so to his disciples:
So you also, when you have done all that you were commanded, say, ‘We are unworthy servants; we have only done what was our duty.’”
What are unworthy servants who have only done their duty entitled to? Nothing.
What can we bring to the cross of the one who, though entitled to everything, gave it all up for our sakes? Nothing.
A sense of entitlement has a sound. It is not the sound of warfare, but ofwhinefare. An over-preening sense that we are entitled to, if not everything, then at least a good deal of it.
And when such a sense of entitlement is threatened we throw a hissy fit.
And it worries me. Why? Because we are entitled to nothing.
I am not saying we cannot stand up publicly for biblical truth in our culture. The church is a witness to the gospel and a fractured enactment of God’s future kingdom, here and now. But the culture is not the kingdom – yet. Hebrews 12:28 tells us we are “receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken“. But we’re receiving it, not entitled to it. Why? Because we are entitled to nothing.
Our sense of entitlement derives from three decades of prosperity gospel, or an iteration of it that, like a parasite, latched onto the entitlement culture and suckled at its malevolent teat.
This false gospel tells us that it is God’s role, nay his very duty, to ensure that all of the creases in our lives are ironed out.
That our teeth are white. That our car is shiny. That our second car is just as shiny. That our kids are happy. That our retirement is healthy.
Such a gospel is, ironically, an impoverished gospel, no gospel at all.
Then, bloated on this ricin-laced sweetener, we watch as the culture slides away from a Christianised morality framework.
The predictable response is an outraged sense of entitlement; a low grade social-media whine occasionally flaring to hot anger.
Yet we are entitled to nothing. We are entitled to nothing.
Oh, I forgot. We are entitled to something: a godless eternity, cut off from all that is good and the good God whose very presence makes it good.
We are entitled to an eternity of nothing, but here’s the good news: the God who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us, will also give us all things. Because we are entitled to them? No. We are entitled to nothing.
Grace and entitlement cannot co-exist. They are mutually exclusive. Where one exists the other must give ground.
Why are “all things” not enough for us? Why the sense of outrage when the godless culture of entitlement threatens our entitlements? Because we don’t want to wait. We want all things now, we are entitled to them now.
Yet the gospel tells us we are entitled to nothing, past, present and future.
Christian exiles, it’s going to be a tough couple of decades in the West, as the culture turns increasingly hostile towards God’s people. If we are going to thrive joyously in the Babylon of our day, indeed if we are going to be compelling witnesses to a desire nothing else can touch, then the first thing to go must be our strong sense of entitlement. Its a strong sense indeed, but a misplaced one.
I sense that we are so afraid of losing what we believe we are owed, we are blind to the distinct possibility that this is God’s judgement for a culture that has rejected Him, and His refining process for a church that has neglected Him.
And the first step in our refining process may well be acknowledging this:
We are entitled to nothing. We are entitled to nothing.

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Gratitude Over Entitlement

From Pete Wilson:
Everything that I have and everything in my life is a gift.
One of the things I’ve been focusing on this year is to have more gratitude and less entitlement because the truth is that whatever we feel entitled to, we cannot be grateful for.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

The Power of Gratitude

Gratitude is a powerful thing. From Pete Wilson:
The moment you think you are owed or entitled to something, you stop being grateful for it.
Your spouse.
Your house.
Your job.
Your kids.
Your friends.
That moment that made you laugh so hard your side hurt.
That sunset that made you stop and take a picture.
That moment of worship where you felt God’s presence so strongly.
Each and every moment. Each and every person.
Life is a gift.
Grace is a gift.
Be thankful.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Signs of An Inward Focused Church

From Thom Rainer via Zach Nielsen - 10 Warning Signs of an Inwardly Obsessed Church:
  1. Worship wars. One or more factions in the church want the music just the way they like it. Any deviation is met with anger and demands for change. The order of service must remain constant. Certain instrumentation is required while others are prohibited.
  2. Prolonged minutia meetings. The church spends an inordinate amount of time in different meetings. Most of the meetings deal with the most inconsequential items, while the Great Commission and Great Commandment are rarely the topics of discussion.
  3. Facility focus. The church facilities develop iconic status. One of the highest priorities in the church is the protection and preservation of rooms, furniture, and other visible parts of the church’s buildings and grounds.
  4. Program driven. Every church has programs even if they don’t admit it. When we start doing a ministry a certain way, it takes on programmatic status. The problem is not with programs. The problem develops when the program becomes an end instead of a means to greater ministry.
  5. Inwardly focused budget. A disproportionate share of the budget is used to meet the needs and comforts of the members instead of reaching beyond the walls of the church.
  6. Inordinate demands for pastoral care. All church members deserve care and concern, especially in times of need and crisis. Problems develop, however, when church members have unreasonable expectations for even minor matters. Some members expect the pastoral staff to visit them regularly merely because they have membership status.
  7. Attitudes of entitlement. This issue could be a catch-all for many of the points named here. The overarching attitude is one of demanding and having a sense of deserving special treatment.
  8. Greater concern about change than the gospel. Almost any noticeable changes in the church evoke the ire of many; but those same passions are not evident about participating in the work of the gospel to change lives.
  9. Anger and hostility. Members are consistently angry. They regularly express hostility toward the church staff and other members.
  10. Evangelistic apathy. Very few members share their faith on a regular basis. More are concerned about their own needs rather than the greatest eternal needs of the world and community in which they live.
Read the rest.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Free From the Encumbrance of Entitlement

""...the freedom Jesus secured for me is not freedom from pain and suffering here and now.  Rather, it's freedom from bitterness, anger, fear, resentment, self-pity, offense and hopelessness in the crucible of present pain and suffering; it is freedom from my burdensome sense of 'I deserve better,' the encumbrance of entitlement. I was realizing that only the gospel can free us from the enslaving pressure to defend ourselves.  That's real freedom - God-sized freedom!"

- Tullian Tchvidjian, Jesus + Nothing = Everything, page 75